Communication is vital in any relationship including a Christian’s own relationship with God. Helping people understand how God communicates to us and we to Him is so important. That’s why we took two weeks in our middle school ministry to talk about just that – how to talk to God. The idea behind this short series is very simple. We wanted to our students to understand that God speaks to us through the Bible and we have the privilege of speaking to Him through prayer. The first week we talked about Bible reading. We looked at what the Bible is and a very practical tools we can use to read it better. The second week we talked about prayer. Much like the talk on the Bible, we looked at what prayer is and how we can pray better following the example Jesus gave in Matthew 6.
I wrote the talk for the first week and our two-year intern Allen Williams wrote the talk for the second week. We wanted to make this short series available to others to use in their own ministry context. As stated above, these talks were originally written for a middle school audience but can be tweaked to fit in almost any context. Click the link below to get both teaching manuscripts as well as the graphics for this series. There is also a “Bible Study Plans and Methods” handout that you can share to go along with the first talk in this series.
There isn’t a shortage of books on prayer. It’s safe to say prayer is one of the most popular topics among Christians books (as it should be). In his book The Prayer That Turns the World Update Down, Albert Mohler writes about prayer and in particular the Lord’s Prayer found in Matthew 6. This books serves as a tool to help the reader not only understand the Lord’s Prayer but also how the model Jesus gave should impact the way they pray. Mohler goes through the Lord’s Prayer and spends a chapter on each statement or petition that Jesus made. It’s a book that includes rich theology but also practical application in regards to the Lord’s Prayer.
I’ve read my fair share of books on prayer but this is by far one of my favorites so far. It was not only one of my favorites but served as one of the most helpful in regards to shaping my view of prayer and how I go about practicing prayer in my own life. There are two things that stand out to me as to why I really liked this book. First, I liked how Mohler didn’t jump right into discussing the Lord’s Prayer but instead spent a chapter covering the section of Scripture right before the Lord’s Prayer. This section of Scripture (Matthew 6:5-8) sets up and includes important context when understanding the Lord’s Prayer. The chapter where Moheler discusses these verses is an excellent read. Second, I really enjoyed some of the nuggets Mohler shared about the Lord’s Prayer that I have never thought about or heard taught before. For example, Mohler points out the use of “our” and “we” throughout the prayer rather than words like “me” or “I.” Mohler rightly points out how Jesus is reminding us about the corporate nature of our Christian faith. He says, “To be Christian is to be part of the church of the Lord Jesus Christ. By God’s grace we are incorporated into the body of Christ so that our most fundamental spiritual identity is not an “I” but a “we.” This runs against the grain of fallen state. It also runs against the grain of American individualism-an individualism that has spread into many sections of evangelicalism. But we must be normed by Scripture. Jesus teaches us to drop the “I” and start with “our” (page 46-47). It was little things like this throughout the book that gave me a fresh look at the Lord’s Prayer.
I’d highly recommend this book for anyone who wants to understand the Lord’s Prayer better and wants to allow the teaching of Jesus to shape the way they pray. Indeed this should be the desire of every Christian. This book is pretty short and is as a simple read but will I believe will make an impact on anyone who reads it. It will give you a fresh look at a commonly used prayer and will remind you of some of the basics of what Jesus taught in regards to prayer.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from BookLook Bloggers.
Parents should be praying for their children. But what actually should parents be praying for? There could be a lot of answers to that question but I want to draw your attention to at least two things parents should be praying for in regards to their children. We see these two things in chapter 13 of the book of Judges.
Chapter 13 of the book of Judges introduces us to a man named Manoah. In verse 2 we find out Manoah’s wife is barren and they have no children. Starting in verse 3 we see that their situation is about to change when an angel appears to them and informs them that they are going to have a child. Later in the chapter we see this come to pass and the boy is named Samson. You can read about Samon’s life in Judges 14-16.
What we find tucked in the middle of chapter 13 though are two prayers that Manoah prays in regards to his son Samson. I want to show you those two prayers and encourage you to pray these same two things for your children as well.
The first one is found in verse 8, which says, “Then Manoah prayed to the Lord and said, “O, Lord, please let the man of God whom you sent come again to us and teach us what we are to do with the child who will be born.” The first thing Manoah prayed for was God’s guidance in parenting his child. Our children are given to us by God and if we were all honest we would admit we have no clue what we are doing with these kids He has given us. The good news is the One who gave us our children desires to help and guide us in the journey of parenting them. Parenting books are great. Talking to other parents is helpful. However, nothing is as good as going to God and asking for His help when it comes to parenting our children. Manoah desires the Lord to teach him and his wife how they should parent this son and this should be the desire of our hearts as well.
The next thing Manoah prayed for in regards to his son is found in verse 12, which says, “And Manoah said, “Now when your words come true, what is to be the child’s manner of life, and what is his mission?” The second thing Manoah prayed for came in the form of a question, which was: What is my child’s mission in life? This is by far one of the most important questions we need to ask God when it comes to our children. More importantly, we must ask this question correctly. The correct way to ask this question is this – God, what is YOUR mission for my child? It’s not about what I think their mission should be. It’s not about what will get them into the right college or career. It’s not about what will help them make the most money. Our desire should be to understand what God’s mission is for their lives. As parents, we must strive to help our children encounter God’s mission for their lives and then support that mission at all cost.
What things are you praying for when it comes to your children? Why not pray the two things mentioned above as well. Pray for God’s guidance in parenting them as well as asking God what His mission is for their lives.
Recently I went to Honduras with a group of our high school students. I have been using my site as a place for them to write about their experience. If you missed the previous three posts in this series be sure to go back and read them. Below is a few thoughts from another student who went on this trip named Lexi Gray.
“Purpose. When our missions trip group went to Honduras, we stayed at a place called La Providencia. La Providencia is an organization that wants to give the orphans and widows the best, not the leftovers. Our team got to be apart of helping these people for the week. I really wanted to go on this trip to build my relationship with God, my team, and the kids in Honduras. God has allowed me to do all three of these things.
Prayer. Prayer played a very important part during the week. Before our team would start on our worksite each day, we would pray. Also after every water break our groups would come together to pray. This taught me that I can pray in any situation at anytime.
Effort. Extra effort was required in order to accomplish what God had already prepared for us to do. Our team gave 110% to everything we did. Also we encouraged one another and stayed positive throughout the highs and lows of the trip. This has shown me that I need to give all of my effort and energy to everything I do because it is all for God. In addition, God has shown me that I need to complain less because this is God’s plan for my life, and he is in control.
Connect. I connected really well with the kids at the VBS we set up. One girl specifically stood out to me, her name was Alma. Alma loved making bracelets with me during the free time at VBS. Also she could speak a lot of English, so it was easier to communicate with her. One time I asked Alma who her best friend was. She said that I was. This showed me how much our group meant to each of these Kids and how much they loved us. Another thing that stood out to me was how happy and grateful these kids were for all the things they had. Several kids would come up to me to say thank you for the VBS. This has helped me to understand how much more thankful I need to be, because these kids do not have much.
Protection. God showed how much he really protects me while I was on this trip. One specific time was when I got extremely sick on the bus ride home from our adventure day. Once I began throwing up, I started to hyperventilate. I can’t move my hands or my feet, and the rest of my body gets tingly. I get stuck breathing in short breaths. But during the whole time God helped me to remember that he is always with me. Also God has given me an amazing brother to be right by my side. I am so thankful for a brother to be there when I need him, and to help calm me down. Also God has blessed me with Crystal McCann to help take care of me and help me know that everything is going to be ok. God has showed me how much he loves me and help me know that he will not give me anymore than I can handle.”
Recently I read Donald Whitney’s newest book Praying the Bible. In this book Whitney explains why praying the Scriptures, particularly the Psalms, is so important and helpful for Christians. Whitney says that many Christians don’t neglect prayer because they don’t care about it or they don’t love God, but instead they are bored with prayer because they tend to “say the same old things about the same old things” (page 11). He also says “the method of most Christians in prayer is to say the same old things about the same old things” (page 15). Whitney argues the solution to this problem is simple – “When you pray, pray through a passage of Scripture, particularly a Psalm” (page 27).
Throughout this book Whitney helps his readers understand that method a little better. He spends multiple chapters walking readers through how to pray through a Psalm as well as things to remember when doing this. He doesn’t limit this practice to the Psalm. He encourages Christians to also use other parts of Scripture for prayer. There is also a chapter that gives examples of people (including Jesus and the early Christians) who practiced this idea of praying through Scripture.
One helpful addition to this book is the “Psalm of the Day” chart that Whitney provides as an appendix. He explains how to use this chart earlier in the book but it serves as a great help to anyone who wants to use this method of prayer.
When it comes to the topic of prayer this is one of the best books I have read. It serves a great reminder of why prayer should be guided by and saturated with Scripture. Not only does it remind us of that great truth, but it guides us in how to do that well.