Parents should be praying for their children. But what actually should parents be praying for? There could be a lot of answers to that question but I want to draw your attention to at least two things parents should be praying for in regards to their children. We see these two things in chapter 13 of the book of Judges.
Chapter 13 of the book of Judges introduces us to a man named Manoah. In verse 2 we find out Manoah’s wife is barren and they have no children. Starting in verse 3 we see that their situation is about to change when an angel appears to them and informs them that they are going to have a child. Later in the chapter we see this come to pass and the boy is named Samson. You can read about Samon’s life in Judges 14-16.
What we find tucked in the middle of chapter 13 though are two prayers that Manoah prays in regards to his son Samson. I want to show you those two prayers and encourage you to pray these same two things for your children as well.
The first one is found in verse 8, which says, “Then Manoah prayed to the Lord and said, “O, Lord, please let the man of God whom you sent come again to us and teach us what we are to do with the child who will be born.” The first thing Manoah prayed for was God’s guidance in parenting his child. Our children are given to us by God and if we were all honest we would admit we have no clue what we are doing with these kids He has given us. The good news is the One who gave us our children desires to help and guide us in the journey of parenting them. Parenting books are great. Talking to other parents is helpful. However, nothing is as good as going to God and asking for His help when it comes to parenting our children. Manoah desires the Lord to teach him and his wife how they should parent this son and this should be the desire of our hearts as well.
The next thing Manoah prayed for in regards to his son is found in verse 12, which says, “And Manoah said, “Now when your words come true, what is to be the child’s manner of life, and what is his mission?” The second thing Manoah prayed for came in the form of a question, which was: What is my child’s mission in life? This is by far one of the most important questions we need to ask God when it comes to our children. More importantly, we must ask this question correctly. The correct way to ask this question is this – God, what is YOUR mission for my child? It’s not about what I think their mission should be. It’s not about what will get them into the right college or career. It’s not about what will help them make the most money. Our desire should be to understand what God’s mission is for their lives. As parents, we must strive to help our children encounter God’s mission for their lives and then support that mission at all cost.
What things are you praying for when it comes to your children? Why not pray the two things mentioned above as well. Pray for God’s guidance in parenting them as well as asking God what His mission is for their lives.
Many Christians go through their lives never truly experiencing the Holy Spirit. Maybe it’s due to lack of understanding of the Spirit or an over correction in response to more of the “charismatic types” of Christians. Either way, many Christians, who do indeed possess the Holy Spirit, go through their daily routines that look very similar to those around them who are non-Christians who do not possess the same Spirit.
Jared Wilson, in his book Supernatural Power for Everyday People,” helps Christians understand how everyday followers of Jesus can experience the supernatural work of the Holy Spirit. Wilson helps the reader see how the Spirit is at work in every aspect of the Christian’s life. The Spirit is working in everything from convicting us, helping us in our spiritual disciplines, comforting us during hard times, gifting us with spiritual gifts, and much more.
I’m a huge fan of Wilson’s books and once again this one didn’t disappoint. I really enjoyed reading a book that was on the topic of the Holy Spirit but was not a “Systemic Theology” type of book. Wilson dives into the topic of the Holy Spirit in a way that’s easy for the reader to understand no matter their theological background or experience. This book reminds me much of Francis Chan’s book Forgotten God as it calls Christians to a similar thing – living their lives saturated with the Holy Spirit. He’s not some mystical, third being of the Trinity that we can’t experience. He’s quite the opposite really. He is God’s presence with us always. Wilson wants Christians to not miss out on this amazing truth as they go about their lives.
Two parts of this book really stood out to me. First, the chapters on Bible reading and prayer. In these two chapters Wilson helps Christians see how the Spirit aids in these two important spiritual disciplines. He includes some very practical tips as well in regards to practicing these disciplines. Second, the chapter on spiritual gifts. In this chapter Wilson gives a quick overview of spiritual gifts and then argues his case for why the “sign gifts” should not be seen as gifts that have ceased but instead of relevant to the church today. He gives three very compelling arguments for his stance: experiential, historical, and Biblical.
I’d encourage any Christian who feels like they are in a rut and not experiencing God’s working in their lives to pick up this book and give it a read. It will help them see that God, through His Spirit, is indeed working and wants to help you experience His power as you go through your live as a follower of Christ.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from BookLook Bloggers.
The Legacy of Luther by Various Authors. One of my favorite figures from church history is Martin Luther. He was truly a unique man that was used by God in massive ways. His life and work continues to impact the way Protestants view their faith and well as how they operate as a faith community. There hasn’t been a shortage of books written about Luther when it comes to both his life and work. This book stands among many other excellent books written about Luther. However, this book is unique in the sense that it allows the reader to take a peak into key areas of Luther’s life and work that other works tend to overlook or don’t spend much time on. For example, there are chapters in this book on Luther’s views on music and preaching, Luther’s family life, and Luther’s later years before his death (which were pretty crazy). The contributors of this book shed light on many fascinating areas of Luther’s life and work that many readers will not get the chance to learn about in other books. I wouldn’t recommend this as the “go to” book on Luther, but would certainly make it one of the top ones out there.
Sing! by Keith and Kristyn Getty. I’ve never read a book on the sole topic of singing. This is one reason I picked up this book to read. However, what I didn’t expect was how much stuff it taught me about singing in just over a 100 pages. It’s a small book that packs a big punch. The reader will learn things like how people were created to sing as well as how we are commanded by God to sing. Readers will also learn about the importance of singing in not only the local church but also in their own personal and family life. There is even helpful bonus sections (called “bonus tracks”) that are written particularly for pastors, worship leaders, and songwriters. This is an excellent little book that I would highly recommend to Christians no matter your place in the local church community.
The Imperfect Disciple by Jared Wilson. One of my favorite authors to read is Jared Wilson. I love his Gospel-centered focus that’s wrapped in a down to earth tone that which makes for both challenging and fun reading. In this book Wilson strives to offer a discipleship manual of sorts that’s for people who “can’t get their act together.” He says, “I tend to think that a lot of ways the evangelical church teaches discipleship seem designed for people who don’t appear to really need it” (page 13). His response then is a book like this where he states: “I want to write a discipleship book for normal people” (page 14). I’d say he accomplishes that goal in this book. This is a book that offers a fresh reminder of God’s grace to people who realize they don’t follow Jesus as well as they want to or should. It’s a book that reminds them of the Gospel instead of giving them self-help action steps to follow. It offers a great reminder of what following Jesus truly means. I’d recommend this book to all Christians.
Two other books I’ve recently read that I chose not to review were The Holiness of God by R.C. Sproul and The Skinny on Communication by Jeff White.
Whenever I sit down to read the Bible I make sure to have some form of study help close by. I’ve learned over the years that good and Biblical sound resources are a huge when it comes to better understanding and applying the Scriptures. I have some great physical resources that help me in this area but I’ve come to love digital resources well. There are thousands of digital Bible study resources you can use but there are three that I use the most and would highly recommend to others.
ESV Bible App. In addition to offering a sharp and clean layout for Bible reading this app offers great resources to help you dive deeper into the Scriptures. It comes with free access to the ESV Global Study Bible and it’s study notes and for a few bucks you can purchase and download even more resources such as the ESV Study Bible and notes, Literary Study Bible and notes, Gospel Transformation Bible and notes, and the ESV Men’s and Women’s Devotional Bibles. This tends to be my go to digital resource as I study God’s Word.
MacArthur Study Bible App. There are a ton of great study Bibles out there. One of those is The MacArthur Study Bible. In this study Bible pastor and theologian John McArthur offers in depth study notes to go along with the Biblical text. This app is basically a digital version of that study Bible. In the app you can read the Bible in either the ESV, NASB, or KJV. You do have to pay a few bucks to get full access to the study notes but it’s a one time charge and well worth it. I’ve always enjoyed MacArthur’s study helps whether that’s through his study Bible or commentaries and this app helps me continue learning more about God’s Word through his resources. I do disagree with him on various parts of theology (for example, his dispensationalism position as well as other parts of eschatology) but overall the study notes I have access to through this app are very beneficial.
Faithlife Study Bible. I don’t use this app as much as the two previously mentioned but it’s a solid resource I go back to from time to time. The most basic use of this app is for the Faithlife Study Bible and it’s note. The best part is this is entirely free! However, if you have a Logos Bible Software account you can get access to all your resources to go along with the Biblical text. I’d highly recommend using this app if you have Logos as a simpler and faster way to view your resources alongside the Biblical text.
Even though there are many digital resources I have used three tend to be the ones I use the most. I’d highly recommend you check them out if you are looking for tools to help you go deeper in your study of God’s Word.
Pleasing People by Lou Priolo. I ran across this book back in college but never took the time to read it until recently. In this book Priolo addresses an issue the majority of us struggle with – the desire to please other people. The first half of the book is dedicated to helping the reader see why this is such a problem. What many will find in this section is that even people who say “I’m not a people-pleaser” usually are to some degree. Priolo does a great job at pointing out how we all struggle with this issue to some extent. The second half of the book deals with the solution to this problem which is to be a God-pleaser. This section, and throughout the entire book really, is a call for Christ followers to be driven by the desire to please God rather than man. This is a solid book I’d encourage every Christian to read at some point.
God Space by Doug Pollock. This is by far one of the best evangelism type books I have ever read. Pollock offers us an approach to sharing the Gospel that I believe is highly effective and needed in our culture today. In this book Pollock helps us see how conversations with people open the door for us to share the Gospel. His aim is for Christian to create what he calls “God space” through intentional, spiritual conversations. This book serves as a guide to having those types of conversations. It’s extremely practical and easy to follow. I was also encouraged by the amount of stories and illustrations Pollock used to show how this method works. This is a book that will reshape how you go about sharing the Gospel. I’d encourage every Christian to take a peak into this one as well.
Secret Power by D.L. Moody. I’ve never read a book by Moody until this one. I enjoy reading classic books written by men and women of God who have gone before us. Like most of those books, this one didn’t disappoint. Throughout this book Moody helps the reader see how the Holy Spirit works in and through the life of the believer and the church. It almost serves as a doctrinal book on the Holy Spirit but doesn’t just stay in the “theological” realm but spends a good bit of time in the practical realm as well. Moody points us to timeless truths about the Holy Spirit that where not just needed in his day but ours as well. Readers will everything from some characteristics of the Holy Spirit to how the Holy Spirit works in our witness for Christ.
Another book I read recently that I chose not to review was Chosen by God by R.C. Sproul. I am currently reading The Holiness of God by R.C. Sproul, Kingdom Come by Sam Storms, and The Skinny on Communication by Jeff White.