Transition Ideas For Students

smart-304883-unsplashAround this time of year a few transitions happen within our student ministry: 5th graders move into the middle school ministry, 8th graders move out of the middle school ministry and into the high school ministry, and seniors transition out of the high school ministry. These transitions really start during the last few weeks of the school year and continue throughout the summer months. By the time the next school year starts everyone is in (or out of) the appropriate ministry.

Transitioning students into, out of, and even within your student ministry is not an easy task. However, over the past few years our student ministry team has gained some great experience in this area and have crafted a pretty good plan for transitioning students. We aren’t perfect by any means and some of the stuff we do isn’t even original with us but has been adopted from other ministries we respect.

I want to share with you three ideas you can steal from us to implement within your transition process. Tweak these ideas to best fit your context and see if they help you shepherd your students through these transitions.

Sixth Graders Into the Middle School Ministry
A few years back one of our children’s ministry staff members came up with the idea of having a breakfast for the current 5th graders where the children’s ministry team can officially “send them off” as well as have those students meet the student ministry staff. We tried it and it went great. Each year around this time we have meet with all the current 5th graders to introduce our student ministry team as well as share with them what to expect in our middle school ministry. We show them pictures, videos, and even play some of the most popular games from our ministry. We also give them some free stuff as well as some resources help them (and their parents) connect with our middle school ministry and keep up with what’s happening. This year we are doing all this as well as having a cereal bar that morning. We do all of this within the kids worship services on Sunday mornings so parents are not having to bring their kids to another event during the week.

Eight Graders Into the High School Ministry
Transitioning our 8th graders into our high school ministry is the hardest transition we have. For us, our middle school and high school ministries are very different as far as atmosphere and programming (example – no musical worship in middle school but in high school we have a full band that leads worship each week). Many students have a hard time with this change and we are always looking for ways to do better. Also, a lot of students just get more busy in high school so we don’t see them stick around or at least show up consistently. However, we do our best to celebrate them as they leave our middle school ministry and encourage them to make the transition to our high school ministry. We do this with an event called Edguation. This is one of the things we have adopted from another church that we use to be a campus of. Edge is the name of our middle school ministry so “Edguation” is like our 8th grade graduation. It’s a special night during our normal program where we honor our 8th graders, give them free stuff (ESV compact Bible and high school ministry t-shirt), craft a talk to challenge them (click here to see how we did it this year with a panel of high schoolers), and have some of our high school students there to meet them. One of my favorite parts of this night is when we send all the 8th graders out of the room (our way of sending them out of the middle school ministry) and into the atrium where they are greeted by screams, high-fives, claps, and more from our high schoolers (click here to see a video). After this happens the 8th graders go into another room where they have some cake and spend time talking to the high schoolers. It’s always a great night.

Seniors Out of the High School Ministry
It’s always bittersweet when our seniors graduate out of our ministry. However, we do our best to celebrate with them. One of the ways we do this is by doing a senior night within our normal program. We usually do it within the last few weeks of the school year and it’s a night where we honor our seniors, give them some free stuff (costum ministry alumni t-shirt), and challenge them from God’s Word. In addition to all this we also do a senior video where we have them answer some questions and share advice for underclassmen (click here to see the video from this past senior class).

Transitions are not easy but doing them well is so important to the health of your student ministry as well as for the ongoing discipleship of your students. Above are just a few things we do that you can use in your ministry as well.

 

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Book Review: The Prayer That Turns the World Upside Down by Albert Mohler

_240_360_Book.2481.coverThere isn’t a shortage of books on prayer. It’s safe to say prayer is one of the most popular topics among Christians books (as it should be). In his book The Prayer That Turns the World Update Down, Albert Mohler writes about prayer and in particular the Lord’s Prayer found in Matthew 6. This books serves as a tool to help the reader not only understand the Lord’s Prayer but also how the model Jesus gave should impact the way they pray. Mohler goes through the Lord’s Prayer and spends a chapter on each statement or petition that Jesus made. It’s a book that includes rich theology but also practical application in regards to the Lord’s Prayer.

I’ve read my fair share of books on prayer but this is by far one of my favorites so far. It was not only one of my favorites but served as one of the most helpful in regards to shaping my view of prayer and how I go about practicing prayer in my own life. There are two things that stand out to me as to why I really liked this book. First, I liked how Mohler didn’t jump right into discussing the Lord’s Prayer but instead spent a chapter covering the section of Scripture right before the Lord’s Prayer. This section of Scripture (Matthew 6:5-8) sets up and includes important context when understanding the Lord’s Prayer. The chapter where Moheler discusses these verses is an excellent read. Second,  I really enjoyed some of the nuggets Mohler shared about the Lord’s Prayer that I have never thought about or heard taught before. For example, Mohler points out the use of “our” and “we” throughout the prayer rather than words like “me” or “I.” Mohler rightly points out how Jesus is reminding us about the corporate nature of our Christian faith. He says, “To be Christian is to be part of the church of the Lord Jesus Christ. By God’s grace we are incorporated into the body of Christ so that our most fundamental spiritual identity is not an “I” but a “we.” This runs against the grain of fallen state. It also runs against the grain of American individualism-an individualism that has spread into many sections of evangelicalism. But we must be normed by Scripture. Jesus teaches us to drop the “I” and start with “our” (page 46-47). It was little things like this throughout the book that gave me a fresh look at the Lord’s Prayer.

I’d highly recommend this book for anyone who wants to understand the Lord’s Prayer better and wants to allow the teaching of Jesus to shape the way they pray. Indeed this should be the desire of every Christian. This book is pretty short and is as a simple read but will I believe will make an impact on anyone who reads it. It will give you a fresh look at a commonly used prayer and will remind you of some of the basics of what Jesus taught in regards to prayer.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from BookLook Bloggers.

Bible Study Plans and Methods

aaron-burden-113284-unsplashRecently we began a new series in our middle school ministry called “Talking with God.” The whole purpose of this series is to help students understand how they can communicate with God and grow in their relationship with Him. For the first week of the series we talked about how God communicates to us through the Bible. We wanted to help students understand not only what the Bible is but also how they can go about reading and studying it consistently. You can watch that entire talk here.

To help them get started in this we created a short handout with various Bible reading plans and methods. It’s not exhaustive but includes a few ideas to get them going in the right direction. We wanted to make this handout available to others so feel free to click the link below and use the handout yourself or in your own ministry context as you help others get into God’s Word.

Bible Study Plans and Methods

Two Prayers for Parents Found in Judges

matheus-ferrero-159633-unsplashParents should be praying for their children. But what actually should parents be praying for? There could be a lot of answers to that question but I want to draw your attention to at least two things parents should be praying for in regards to their children. We see these two things in chapter 13 of the book of Judges.

Chapter 13 of the book of Judges introduces us to a man named Manoah. In verse 2 we find out Manoah’s wife is barren and they have no children. Starting in verse 3 we see that their situation is about to change when an angel appears to them and informs them that they are going to have a child. Later in the chapter we see this come to pass and the boy is named Samson. You can read about Samon’s life in Judges 14-16.

What we find tucked in the middle of chapter 13 though are two prayers that Manoah prays in regards to his son Samson. I want to show you those two prayers and encourage you to pray these same two things for your children as well.

The first one is found in verse 8, which says, “Then Manoah prayed to the Lord and said, “O, Lord, please let the man of God whom you sent come again to us and teach us what we are to do with the child who will be born.” The first thing Manoah prayed for was God’s guidance in parenting his child. Our children are given to us by God and if we were all honest we would admit we have no clue what we are doing with these kids He has given us. The good news is the One who gave us our children desires to help and guide us in the journey of parenting them. Parenting books are great. Talking to other parents is helpful. However, nothing is as good as going to God and asking for His help when it comes to parenting our children. Manoah desires the Lord to teach him and his wife how they should parent this son and this should be the desire of our hearts as well.

The next thing Manoah prayed for in regards to his son is found in verse 12, which says, “And Manoah said, “Now when your words come true, what is to be the child’s manner of life, and what is his mission?” The second thing Manoah prayed for came in the form of a question, which was: What is my child’s mission in life? This is by far one of the most important questions we need to ask God when it comes to our children. More importantly, we must ask this question correctly. The correct way to ask this question is this – God, what is YOUR mission for my child? It’s not about what I think their mission should be. It’s not about what will get them into the right college or career. It’s not about what will help them make the most money. Our desire should be to understand what God’s mission is for their lives. As parents, we must strive to help our children encounter God’s mission for their lives and then support that mission at all cost.

What things are you praying for when it comes to your children? Why not pray the two things mentioned above  as well. Pray for God’s guidance in parenting them as well as asking God what His mission is for their lives.

Book Review: Supernatural Power for Everyday People by Jared Wilson

_240_360_Book.2480.coverMany Christians go through their lives never truly experiencing the Holy Spirit. Maybe it’s due to lack of understanding of the Spirit or an over correction in response to more of the “charismatic types” of Christians. Either way, many Christians, who do indeed possess the Holy Spirit, go through their daily routines that look very similar to those around them who are non-Christians who do not possess the same Spirit.

Jared Wilson, in his book Supernatural Power for Everyday People,” helps Christians understand how everyday followers of Jesus can experience the supernatural work of the Holy Spirit. Wilson helps the reader see how the Spirit is at work in every aspect of the Christian’s life. The Spirit is working in everything from convicting us, helping us in our spiritual disciplines, comforting us during hard times, gifting us with spiritual gifts, and much more.

I’m a huge fan of Wilson’s books and once again this one didn’t disappoint. I really enjoyed reading a book that was on the topic of the Holy Spirit but was not a “Systemic Theology” type of book. Wilson dives into the topic of the Holy Spirit in a way that’s easy for the reader to understand no matter their theological background or experience. This book reminds me much of Francis Chan’s book Forgotten God as it calls Christians to a similar thing – living their lives saturated with the Holy Spirit. He’s not some mystical, third being of the Trinity that we can’t experience. He’s quite the opposite really. He is God’s presence with us always. Wilson wants Christians to not miss out on this amazing truth as they go about their lives.

Two parts of this book really stood out to me. First, the chapters on Bible reading and prayer. In these two chapters Wilson helps Christians see how the Spirit aids in these two important spiritual disciplines. He includes some very practical tips as well in regards to practicing these disciplines. Second, the chapter on spiritual gifts. In this chapter Wilson gives a quick overview of spiritual gifts and then argues his case for why the “sign gifts” should not be seen as gifts that have ceased but instead of relevant to the church today. He gives three very compelling arguments for his stance: experiential, historical, and Biblical.

I’d encourage any Christian who feels like they are in a rut and not experiencing God’s working in their lives to pick up this book and give it a read. It will help them see that God, through His Spirit, is indeed working and wants to help you experience His power as you go through your live as a follower of Christ.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from BookLook Bloggers.